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u mean.. .. my big sis and her white boyfriend ? they've been together really long :y19: way better than viet guys for my experience :chay:


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konoki wrote:
u mean.. .. my big sis and her white boyfriend ? they've been together really long :y19: way better than viet guys for my experience :chay:

'cause you haven't met the right guy yet!!!!! :oops:

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konoki wrote:
u mean.. .. my big sis and her white boyfriend ? they've been together really long :y19: way better than viet guys for my experience :chay:


mee tooo!!....3 Vietnamese Guys I used to date... didnt last more 3 months :oops:

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he stated that it's okay for guys to date other races but not girls, I think it's selfish and sexist...talks like one of those controlling and bullying husbands in vietnam who just wants the wives to obey their order


he didn't say that...he's wondering why is it that asian chicks tend to have a serious relationship with the white and forgetting their culture and sh**. he said that he would date a white girl, but it wouldnt be a serious relationship yet he'd have to be determined. and he's wondering why asian girls are are choosing white men. he never stated anything sexist

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I don't really follow the discussion in details but then in my opinion, I don't think this should be any problem at all.

In school, at work, and within my friend circles, I do see that there are many white guys date asian girls than asian guys date white girls. However, there is one thing I get to observe. There is only about 1 out of 10 asian girls that date the white dude actually pretty one. But then about 9 out of 10 white girls that date asian guys look gorgeous while the asian guys are just average or... not even up to the average level. Someone mentions that asian guys are very demanding. This probably show that most of asian men are indeed demanding. This is why asian guys got the best items out of the market once he had chosen. He demands his girlfriend to be pretty, loyal, and intelligent. It is just the matter of how much confidence the guy has once he has spotted the right one.

On the other hand, because white guys aren't demanding and don't really have many criteria in their selection. Most of the times, they end up picking rotten apples under the trees. I have quite a lot of relatives who marry white husband or wife. From the way I view their marriage was, the white husbands always got dominated after the wedding. But the white girl acts just like a traditional Vietnamese or chinese wife. Get home from work, cook, take care of babies. However, I do see a few white girls couldn't fit into the husband asian family, and they end up divorce.

Please note that my comments always use the word "most", not "all" because it's only based on my experience. I don't want to include everybody because I know there are pretty asian girls out there go for white dude for some reason that only she knows: look, easiness, sweet talking, gentle, or even money. The US constitution lies. All men are NOT born equally. However, work on the thing that you was not born equally like other men.


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he didn't say that...he's wondering why is it that asian chicks tend to have a serious relationship with the white and forgetting their culture and sh**. he said that he would date a white girl, but it wouldnt be a serious relationship yet he'd have to be determined. and he's wondering why asian girls are are choosing white men. he never stated anything sexist


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People in here would give different opinions of Vietnamese girls dating with whites because we don't have the same background .I see there are three different groups of Vietnamese Americans: ones that are born in the US, ones that are born in Vietnam come to usa at young age, and adults that come here, carrying their original culture .
The group thats born in the USA seem to been taught or been brainwashed by the white culture unconsciously, or not knowing. For example, in most schools there are always more whites than Vietnameses, there are more white idols, our media is mostly made up with white, such as news or any related communities, the eyes will always catch white people first and you will become adapted to the American culture without knowing it . When these youngsters grow up in the US, they will begin to realize who they are when they hear "Vietnamese b1tch", "Chink", and etc from white people, then they will begin to think about themselves. From that collide point, the two different cultures will impact, and we begin to look at the mirror and see clearly that we are Vietnameses, no matter what culture you are in.

Tofu and I could be in the same group that still carries the Vietnamese tradional culture which believe we Vietnameses should belong together . Thats why most of you Vietnamese people would probably have heard from your parents "dont date outside our race!".
But Tofu and I may have a conflict to the others Vietnameses concepts or their brainwashed beliefs .
My question is how can we settle of this issue and come up to be joyceful together again .


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anthem7 wrote:
he didn't say that...he's wondering why is it that asian chicks tend to have a serious relationship with the white and forgetting their culture and sh**. he said that he would date a white girl, but it wouldnt be a serious relationship yet he'd have to be determined. and he's wondering why asian girls are are choosing white men. he never stated anything sexist


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hahaha i like to date white girls and maybe some latinos but i dont expect vietnamese girls to date other races!


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yes i do care for my race and i want to stop it. they need to understand and see the big picture. :P if i see a viet guy dating a white girl, i would be his friend. :P



that's enough to know that he's selfish and to me it's sexist

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hahah you are very serious about this huh


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hahah you are very serious about this huh


not realli, so ur not serious? troi, làm mất thơì gian reply, ranñh wá

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PostPosted: Apr 13, 2009 - 04:10 PM 
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just cut and pasted my answer from my response in xanga.

very simple, dude. when you go watch movie, you see hot white men, professional white males, you see them sexy brad pitt, george clooney, tom cruise and leonardo dicaprio. when you turn on tv, you see funny talk show people, or handsome white news reporters. even in porn! you see white boys with huge 17"... after surgery. asian girls grew up with cultural differences from their parents and found their asian accent turn off while cute white boys from europe sounds cute with their accent. you dont see any guys in the media. ok, admit it, jackie chang is as fobby as i am and he is ugly. so if i were an asian chick, i would probably end up with a white dude (jk). on the other hand, im vietnamese and i would love to date a white girl (its my secret, ahhaha!). but unfortunately, i live in orange county, CA where vietnamese population is majority, you dont even need to speak english to live here so, i really dont know the way i approach to them would work. please advise.haha!


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PurpleRain wrote:
...ấu trĩ

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Cyb3rT3k wrote:
I don't really follow the discussion in details but then in my opinion, I don't think this should be any problem at all.

In school, at work, and within my friend circles, I do see that there are many white guys date asian girls than asian guys date white girls. However, there is one thing I get to observe. There is only about 1 out of 10 asian girls that date the white dude actually pretty one. But then about 9 out of 10 white girls that date asian guys look gorgeous while the asian guys are just average or... not even up to the average level. Someone mentions that asian guys are very demanding. This probably show that most of asian men are indeed demanding. This is why asian guys got the best items out of the market once he had chosen. He demands his girlfriend to be pretty, loyal, and intelligent. It is just the matter of how much confidence the guy has once he has spotted the right one.

On the other hand, because white guys aren't demanding and don't really have many criteria in their selection. Most of the times, they end up picking rotten apples under the trees. I have quite a lot of relatives who marry white husband or wife. From the way I view their marriage was, the white husbands always got dominated after the wedding. But the white girl acts just like a traditional Vietnamese or chinese wife. Get home from work, cook, take care of babies. However, I do see a few white girls couldn't fit into the husband asian family, and they end up divorce.

Please note that my comments always use the word "most", not "all" because it's only based on my experience. I don't want to include everybody because I know there are pretty asian girls out there go for white dude for some reason that only she knows: look, easiness, sweet talking, gentle, or even money. The US constitution lies. All men are NOT born equally. However, work on the thing that you was not born equally like other men.


thats stereotyping :P


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PostPosted: Jul 02, 2009 - 01:44 AM 
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Some very interesting comments on herẹ Ím a white man with an educated and what I consider to be decent upbringịng I am NOT superior to Asians and have never considered myself superior. Ím attracted to Vietnamese girls and have dated 1 before who I respected and cared for very much. Some white men give the rest of us a bad namẹ Some Asian men give the rest of Asian men a bad namẹ I think psychologically people are fascinated by something different. Having said that most Asian girls in my opinion prefer an Asian man. I have found Asian men to be very kind and hospitable. They do treat their women differently than whites and have different expectations than whites who tend to consider women equal to themselves. People will be attracted to different things. Just a matter of preference. The way the world is going more interracial relationships of all kinds will take place.


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