Hello to all the gals!

I know that a lot of girls follow a set of rules in dating and relationship. I want to know if all the rules are consistent with all the girls or they very vary. For examples:

1. When you're on a first date with a guy, at the end of the date you really like him. Do you kiss him or do you let him kiss you? Or by the rule, you won't kiss on the first date. What about make-out, sex or hug? When do you actually want to do those kinds of things? (2nd date, 3rd date, or after 3 months)

2. When you gave out your number to a guy and he doesn't call you the next day or 2 days later, do you get upset? Or by the rule, you will automatically cross this guy out of your list because you think that he's playing game with your head?

3. During the first week, after the first date or second date that you had with him, you still really like him and want to talk to him. Do you initiate the call or text the guy first? Or by the rule, you will wait until he calls or texts?

4. Do you believe in the rule of "playing hard to get" will get him more into you?

5. Do you like to initiate the touching or you like him to initiate it first? A few girls I went to the movie date with just grab my hand with her two hands and press it against their chest and hold it there for a long time. I was pretty puzzled of this action as I know that it's one of the most sensitive parts of the females. Why do they do that? We were on a first few dates. Is it like a test in the girls' dating rules?

6. Do you prefer dating an experienced guy or a newbie?

Okay, I'll add more when I have time.

LIESSSSSSSSSSSS

this just proves that girls don't really mean what they say haha... Most of the girls in here said that if they like someone then they won't follow any kind of rules. But at the same time, they all said that they won't kiss or have sex with the guy on the first few dates no matter what, and if the guy doesn't call after 2 or 3 days, then they will forget about him. Those basically are the rules girls already set out before or during they date, they follow it, yet they won't admit it, and say that just go with the flow.

My sư phụ is so right on this one

in sex, there's no such thing "phải làm", that is like "rape". When you decide to have sex with someone, that's because you want to, not being forced to. So basically, there are girls who WANT or WOULD LIKE to have sex with the guy during the first or second date because he is so charming, but then somehow, her rules or instincts are telling her that she shouldn't do it, because first, she is unsure about the guy regarding his medical conditions and other consequences, and 2nd, she will lose him in the long run because she will appear like a slut. Basically, these reasons formulated the rule to the girls that they shouldn't have sex w/ the guy in the first few dates if she's not looking for just a sex buddy